I just realized that I made the biggest mistake of my life by letting my ex go and now I want my ex back. What should I do?
One of the most important pieces of advice I have received from my friends is to not forget about yourself. If you want to get your ex back make sure that you do not lose your confidence. Dress up, doll up, and look your best. Your ex will definitely notice this and he will see how well you are handling the breakup. This will make him see what a big loss you are to him and so he will try to make a move and ask you to get back with him.
Another thing I have learned is to ask myself “Why do I want my ex back?” Was it because he was the man of my dreams or because I knew how much he loved me and I did really love him too despite our imperfections. Were we better off together than being apart from each other or being with other people? The truth is, I realized how much I loved him and that I envisioned him as the man who’s going to be the head of our family that’s why I wanted him back.
Was he also willing to give our relationship a chance? Does he also want me back? Why worry about getting back together with him if he is not even open about it. So make sure that he is also up for it and that he deserves a second chance with you. Do not waste your time and energy on a person who does not know how to value you at all. When I realized that I want my ex back I made sure that we are both exerting effort and that you are both willing to go the extra mile just to prove to each other that you both deserve to be together.